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Sense of self

Nurturing identity, confidence and belonging

A strong sense of self helps children understand who they are and where they belong. Through everyday experiences, children begin to develop confidence, independence and a sense of identity.

Children's sense of self grows through relationships, experiences and the way they are seen and supported by others. When children feel valued and capable, they begin to trust themselves and their abilities.

Every opportunity to make choices, express ideas and be recognised for who they are helps build a strong and positive sense of identity over time.

Sense of self

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Developing self-awareness

Supporting children to develop an understanding of themselves, their thoughts, feelings and experiences.

Explore how reflection, self-awareness and recognising personal qualities help children develop a deeper understanding of who they are.

Encouraging independence and agency

Supporting children to develop independence, initiative and confidence in their own abilities.

Explore how choice-making, problem-solving and growing independence help children develop agency and influence in their everyday lives.

Expressing identity and individuality

Supporting children to develop a positive sense of identity and confidence in expressing who they are.

Explore how self-expression, individuality, culture and personal identity help children develop confidence, authenticity and a strong sense of self.

Making choices and having a voice

Supporting children to share their ideas, express their preferences and contribute to decisions that affect them.

Explore how participation, self-expression and having a voice help children develop confidence, agency and a sense of influence in their world.

Taking initiative and responsibility

Supporting children to develop initiative, responsibility and ownership of their actions.

Explore how responsibility, commitment and following through on tasks help children develop confidence, independence and a sense of contribution.

Recognising strengths and capabilities

Supporting children to recognise their strengths, abilities and potential.

Explore how identifying strengths, building on capabilities and appreciating growth help children develop confidence, competence and belief in themselves.

When children feel safe, supported and seen, they begin to trust themselves and the world around them.